Safety Index Page
These pages have been put together in the hope that i can try to spread the
word to submissives about the need for safety precautions when meeting
and playing with Doms for the first time.
Many new submissives are very naive about the dangers they are subjecting
themselves to when they arrange to meet a dom for the first time. They seem
to presume that just because of the levels of trust and communication that
are involved in the BDSM scene as a whole, that they are immune from danger.
Its not true! It is only often with hindsight that you can see just how much
of a risk you were actually taking at the time.
Even as an experienced submissive i have fallen into the trap myself of
trusting someone, and despite safe calls i was still physically hurt. So
if it can happen to me..it can happen to anyone. So please so read these
pages, and please do make sure you are as safe as you can possibly be
when you head off for that all important first meeting.
Some hints and tips on precautions
you need to take to keep yourself safe when meeting a dom for the
first time.
A checklist of information that you should find out before you arrange
a first meeting with a prospective dominant.
This is an article that describes the different traits of the online
and offline dom, inlcuding HNG's and snerts. Some practical, down to earth
safety advice too.
A true story written by Morrigan about her
own experience of a Dom who wasn't exactly truthful.
My own pages dealing with abuse within BDSM
relationships. Includes a web forum and a page of links and articles dealing
with various areas of abuse within the scene.
Hopefully if you follow all the safety guidelines and safety
information both here and on the rest of the internet, Survive will never
be a site you have to visit. However, god forbid, if you are unfortunate
enough to ever be raped Survive can give you the clear consice information you
will need to find out what to do, and where to go for help etc.
John Edward Robinson who was known as the
Slavemaster rocked the online community when news broke of the
murder of 5 women. Maybe stories like this will help make all female
subs/slaves more aware of some of the the dangers of the Internet.
by silkenluv. This is a page dedicated to showing the safety issues we must
never just take for granted.
©tiana 2000-2005
