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BDSM Abuse

In January 1998 i was cruelly raped by someone i knew. In an effort to come to terms with what happened to me, i started building Survive, a site dedicated to helping rape victims.

While researching items for Survive i soon realised that even within the BDSM community abuse still happens. I am trying to build up links and articles that show the dangers and risks that may be involved in setting out and forming relationships in the BDSM world.

I have tried to list as many of the websites i have been able to find online that deal with abuse within BDSM relationships, or people in BDSM relationships that have been abused in their past, either within or outside of a BDSM context.

If you know of any that you think we need to included please mail me and let me know the URL and i will add it.

BDSM Abuse Links

  • Survive
    My website dealing with rape and how to survive it.

  • A cautionary tale
    Recommended for all who think they can't get hurt by the internet

  • SM Perspectives
    How do you define "Safe, Sane and Consensual"? By Gloria Brame

  • Kink Aaware Proffesionals
    For people who are seeking professionals who are informed about the diversity of consensual, adult sexuality.

  • Wings of Fire
    Wings of Fire is an online community in the BDSM lifestyle dedicated to overcoming and surviving all forms of abuse

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